Life is full of possible fun and God given. The positive ones by far outnumber the bad/forbidden/haram ones. Many people I know many people who bind themselves with so many "can not do this or that" one syndrome....sheeesh.
Get out there and LIVE. Life is too short lah. At 66, Praise THE ALMIGHTY, I have been and am still LIVING, All Praise to Allah s.w.t.. See video of my life these days at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyGd6tpag4k